A tiny tip- (miniblog)
Playing hard to get works, for both men and women. "Easy" implies a lot: you are not discreet, not choosy, got one thing on your mind, you do not require work, you do not require anyone puts effort into your needs. . . It takes weeks to get the most beautiful flowers in my garden to grow, but the weeds shoot up in 24 hours; the more effort we put into something, the more we tend to value it- it's called effort justification (a psychological principle). We want what we can't have (the forbidden toy), another principle. Last, the double standard will always exist; men don't look for wives in strip clubs. Make a "so many date" rule.
Dr. Dawn Marlena Hopper