Consider this- women will not rape for sex nor pay for it. Do you know of any woman prowling the street corners looking for able men to have sex with them? She needs to have her head examined. Ask any female what she would rather have- a new pair of designer shoes or a night with a good looking sexually able man. Hands down, I know the answer. In looking for fundamental differences between men and women researchers have found the differences staggering. For the benefit of my more research orientated audience I’ve included some reference aids in parentheses next to the statements I deliver.
Come to Pornatopia! The research on men and sex is plentiful. Excuse me, I should qualify this statement; the research is usually conducted using college students, usually freshman. Sex drive might be considered the motivation to engage in sex and men do possess much more. Men think about sex more than women (Oliver and Hyde, 1993). Males experience more unwanted and intrusive sexual thoughts (Byers, Purdon, and Clark, 1998; see Baumeister, 2010) report more sexual compulsive thinking and need to control it (Vanwesenbeeck, Bekker, and van Lenning, 1998), have more spontaneous events of desire; sometimes several times a day while females report only a few times a week (Beck, Bozman, and Qualtrough,1991; Knoth, Boyd, and Singer, 1988). Men also report much more fantasy having over twice as many sexual fantasies per day (4.75 vs. 2.00) than do females (Jones and Barlow 1990) and they masterbate more.
